sigmastolen | A motive revealed (Reply)

Remember this post in which I recounted a conversation I had with a male friend in which he asked me whether Jay was good in bed? So, he was in town at the beginning of January and there was a party and so, with the aid of some very strong G&T for liquid courage, I asked him why he had asked that. And he said something to the effect of, "I was honestly curious whether a guy like him would be a good lover." And I almost replied, "Tall skinny nerdy guys? Or did you know back then that he was only looking out for himself?" And then my ride went home and one of his roommates (and, incidentally, also (formerly?) a good friend of Jay's) proceeded to try and get in my pants and that was sort of horrifically uncomfortable, especially since he kept trying to have meaningful conversation except I was drunk and trying very hard not to be miserable and neither of those things is conducive to meaningful conversation and he was very well aware that I was in no place to be able to deal with friends making moves on me anyway.

Good times!